This past week or so I have experienced different cultural things.

Last Friday we went to a quince. We didn't go to the actual ceremony, but the after party. It was very extravagant. I was told that from the time that the girl turns ten they start planning and saving for the quince. During the party, we were served dinner, which was very good. We didn't stay long enough to have cake, but the cake they had was huge. The girl's dress was beautiful and I cant even imagine the cost. In this culture there are many traditions and it was interesting to see that even though a family might not have much money they still pay crazy amounts for the quince.

On Sunday, we got the sad news that a 16 year old boy named Fernando, from a neighboring town had passed away. He was dealing with cancer that was not cure able. He was part of the youth group here, but I was not able to meet him. Needless to say this past week has been sad. Here in Mexico the families have a 24 hour open casket where many people come to offer there condolences and support. We went to that, which was sad to know that a brother, son and friend had passed away. The next day was the funeral. There were many parts to the ceremony. First there was a catholic mass held for him, then he was taken to his school where there was another ceremony to remember his life. After that, we drove to the grave site. It was very hard to witness, knowing the hurt the friends and family felt. After he was buried there was a sermon and music. There are so many things people do here in Mexico to honor the deceased. This Saturday we are planning a pizza party because Fernando has a twin brother and we want to support him.

We are planning to have a Thanksgiving celebration with American missionaries that own a deaf school in Los Mochis. Then stay for a few days and help at the school. I am very excited to be able to help there.

Please pray and continue to pray for the following things:

For the family of Fernando. He has 4 brothers and I can't imagine the pain his family is feeling.

Our trip down south in January

We continue to grow closer to the girls here

For God to continue keeping us safe

I am doing well here and appreciate everyone who reads my blog and prays for me!

Hailey

Hola!
Everything is going well down here in Mexico. I have definitely seen God working. Last post I told you guys about the youth group that we were going to have on Saturday. Two girls came, which was definitely an answer to prayer. Then, last Friday at youth group, 5 different girls showed up. I am hoping and praying that these girls will continue to come to group and grow in Christ. I hope that I will be able to cultivate relationships and be a light to these girls.

Some of you may have heard that there was a hurricane headed twords where we were last week. It was predicted to weaken and definitely did. There was no rain, wind or anything. I think God was watching out for us. Other than that the weather is cooling down. It is really funny because all the people here think it is cold, and to me it is nothing.

In January we are planning on taking a trip further into Mexico and the Coults were praying for a way to raise funds to take the trip. God has answered that prayer too and there was a donation that will allow us to have the finances to go. During this trip we will see some of the people and ministries that the Coults have been supporting. I am excited for the adventure.

I would like to thank all the people who have supported me financially. It means so much to know that other people are willing to donate their hard earned money to allow me to take this trip. I also want to thank everyone who has encouraged me during this time :). Your prayers and love are much appreciated.

God Bless,

Hailey Holden